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Aug. 9th, 2012 08:38 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
dryadgrlSo much has shifted for me.
Gist: I have big emotions. THat's always been true. Acknowledging that and really being with myself and my limits is still the way to go. I have been runong away when I have them, even still and time does heal many things. Taking care of me is priority one. Assuming that no one else cares or that they are in the same place they've been locks us in time as well as conflict/upset.
Things change and I change and I commit to not assuming that others are holing conflict.
Also a little kindness in these situations goes a long way. I have transformed several relationships this week just by being kind and being willing for the other person to be angry and mean even so. And no one I know wants to be mean. They are sometimes in pain and react from that, but people really don't want to hurt each other. (Except when they do which comes from the same place.)
I am not alone... there is a lot more, but I jumped right into work and thus this was all I could get to last night.
Gist: I have big emotions. THat's always been true. Acknowledging that and really being with myself and my limits is still the way to go. I have been runong away when I have them, even still and time does heal many things. Taking care of me is priority one. Assuming that no one else cares or that they are in the same place they've been locks us in time as well as conflict/upset.
Things change and I change and I commit to not assuming that others are holing conflict.
Also a little kindness in these situations goes a long way. I have transformed several relationships this week just by being kind and being willing for the other person to be angry and mean even so. And no one I know wants to be mean. They are sometimes in pain and react from that, but people really don't want to hurt each other. (Except when they do which comes from the same place.)
I am not alone... there is a lot more, but I jumped right into work and thus this was all I could get to last night.
